The demo's I showed are actually not really a "best of" but just a part of what I am allowed to show on the internet with the couples approval, It's that I don't want complaints from relatives who see their face on the net without giving their approval for that.
On the actual dvd the relatives and so on are more then frequent visible, also the actual sound is an important part on some occasions, for instance when the couple sees eachother the first time in the morning, that footage is without background music or at the registry office sound is the most important part of the day, for the rest I use a mixture of music and live sound, depending what is most appropriate.
The music on the actual dvd can be anything and is usually the couples choice, it is allowed in Belgium for me to use whatever music I want on the wedding dvd as long as it's intended for use by the couple only. The only thing that is expected is that all the music that I use has been bought legally but there is no real inspections on that part by the goverment. In most case the couple lend me their favorite music for editing and afterwards I just return it to them, so acc to Belgian "music law" that is OK.
Actually I also don't like cinescore type of music eventhough it sounds quite OK, it's just that I don't want to pay extra just for music that I use in a demo while cinescore can do a good enough job.
The fact that I have an "eye" for special shots has been said before to me, I'm very visual oriented in everything that I film but it's also the only thing which I am better in then average. Don't ask me to make a short movie with a story because I can't make it or do very special things with sound.
I always have some kind of image in my head or pick up idea's from movies and just improvise from there, for weddings that's perfect and that experimental part gives me these special shots but for short movies f.i. what I "try" to do in my free time, I really suck, they "look" quite good and are edited OK but don't tell anything, it's only a visual experience with not much meaning. (From my point of view it has meaning but nobody understands it

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But that doesn't mean I'm not learning, I notice a improvement in my work especially in the weaker parts which I don't master that well but it's a slow process.
The problem with me is that I am very impatient, maybe that is the reason why I like shooting weddings because everything is often a split second decission, don't think but act

and making a complete 50 minute wedding dvd every week is also a challenge.
Anyways, thanks for your comments, they are greatly appreciated.