I have tried to be as liberal as possible and went to the lengths of adding an "after hours" section for posts of a more adult nature. This area quickly became more of an off-topic discussion area and the forum I check first.
It has since come to light that a user has been offended by the nature of the content of this private forum and as such I have now further restricted access to this area. It has been invite only for a few months, and will continue to be so. It's not an elitist thing, I just don't want people to accuse the forum of all the things a certain user posted.
What does this mean? Well, I'll continue to avoid moderation where possible, but will not be able to move the more risque/rude/offensive videos to another area.