I'm not an expert in this field but other members of the forum are. You can purchase plugins for both AE and Final Cut Pro to give you that 'film' look. It takes a lot of extra processing time, and you have to ask yourself is it really worth the extra wait? What make of camcorders are you using to shoot your movies on? At the end of the day, video was never intended to look like what you see in the movies, but if you want to look into these plugins, then they may suffice.