the audio is jumping ahead or falling behind frames, anyone knows the reason?

What is the source materail, I suspect it may be torrented divx / xvid. This can happen with those.

as a matter of fact it is, i watch alot of korean flicks and such, and ive been practicing stuff with them on vegas and premiere to get a lil knowledge so i dont walk into my independent stuff blind, so basically this wont happen with say dv footage of my own?

No, it often happens with torrenated stuff cos of the way the compression is done. I have never had a dv file, or a dvd file, actually it's only divx files that have ever done it.

now the audio wont even load, im trying to cut a clip from a tv show i love, but the audio wont load.

I think problems like this can be caused by codec problems.

The easiest to fix is no codec. 'Sniff' file with Gspot (free, google it) and see what the audio codec is, then get it.

That prob isnt it, more likely there is some hypercomplicated software / dll / Tron / HAL9000 problem that is super teccy to understand, in my expirience (and others here) having too many codecs installed can cause this sort of thing.

Maybe try clearing out some codecs... trouble is I dont know how to do that.... anyone else ? ?