You MUST get a firewire port sorted.
As for software the free option is built into xp - many people find this sufficient. Have a play with that first.
Next you can spend £ 50 to 100 on something like vegas platinum or premier elements, these are stripped down versions of full on editors that cost £300 and upwards.
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