It's not clear from your post exactly when and how these crashes are happening i.e. what your workflow is and what the error message is.
If it's failing on an actual burn, can you burn to an ISO image? If so, use a 3rd party app to create the actual DVD from the image. I've used several DVD authoring packages and I *never* use them to actually create a DVD - I always create an image or a DVD folder on the hard drive first and then use something else to do the actual burn. ImgBurn (from
The Official ImgBurn Website) is good - 6 months+ usage now and not a single coaster. And it's free.