hi.
i have the same camcorder. i found that the only player that works is the VLC player.
you can download it here:
VLC Media Player - Download
and its free.
i also use sony vegas and it lets me transfer the files straight in with no problems.
i dont know why they only come up sometimes. i always transfer the file onto my computer from the memory stick. it works fine once its on my computer.
hope this helps.
regards
munclesmubb